We have to be nice, especially to ourselves.

That’s when we recognize it in others.

Being nice to me means being kind, gentle, understanding, compassionate, etc.

The meaning we put behind words have different connotations towards our actions.

If you’re too nice and not happy with what you’re putting out there and getting back, might mean that the meaning you’re giving to the word needs a bit of tweeking!

If the word is something you hear over and over again in a negative setting, then it’s definitely time.

The most important part is not to step over your own values to help others.

In this clip we review a dear Tan Fan’s dilemma and hopefully the answer will help you too.

Here we go:

Please leave your comments and answers in the comment boxes under the questions. Remember, you can help others as someone in need may be reading them and can benefit from your words. Thank you for being part of the progress.